curlyinco

6.05.2006

so yesterday was good

It was hotter than hell though. The clubhouse where we had the reception didn't have airconditioning, and omg, was it beyond hot.

And my grandma came to the baptism, but then shortly left after to go to my cousins thing. Which is fine. I didn't really expect her to come so that was nice.

Too bad her coming was overshadowed by a huge fight between her and I today where she started acting like my parent b/c she thinks that she can control me. Um, newsflash, you moved states when I was 15 ish - you removed yoursel from my life and didn't look back. you don't know what my favorite color is or my children's middle names because you chose to not know. So don't come into town for 1 week and lecture me. You are my grandmother, not my mom and defintely not a close grandmother at that.

It ended up in me hanging up with her.

Oh, and then I get a call from my cousin today whom promptly asked if my daughter was okay - I ask why? she said that other cousin whom is younger than my daughter was puking all night - why you ask? Because my cousins cousin (not related to us) they spiked their punch at the reception and left them in toddler range after they left. So said toddler drank tequila and was basically drunk. FUCKING NICE. Well....we will never be having another event with them again. Good God if that isn't the icing to the cake this week.

And my loveable daughter has been a GEM today. I am so excited :) She peed in the potty all day long, we haven't had an accident yet AND for 2 days in a row, she has peed on her own. I am so flippin happy. We even went swimming yesterday and she got out of the pool to pee. I AM SO PROUD OF YOU MY SASSY SALLY!!

So, i am sitting here, defrosting some hamburger to make stuffed peppers for us for dinner and just waiting for my dad to call to find out what exactly it was that I said to his mother. I dread this call. I need to keep my mouth shut as to not upset him b/c it is still his mother, I am just going to choose to not ever, ever, ever speak to her again. I think I need to get toxic inlaws - do they make a book called toxic people? If so, I want to get it and read it. Maybe then I can truly understand her issues and just let it go. I just can't believe that she started in on me today....I am tired of having a heavy heart, i am tired of listening to her bitch and most of all, I am tired of hating her. I just want to let it go. Think hypnosis will help ??!?

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