Single friends
Now that I am married, it isn't like i took a pill that made me forget what it was like to be single.
I have a friend, she is single. It is the weirdest thing ever. We don't talk much anymore ~ and I am positive it is b/c I have a life that she would like for herself - not necessarily my life, but aspects of it.
We used to be close, but she has made super hurtful comments lately about me and my kiddos and kinda flirts with my hubby - not to mention that she asked him to go to a brewery with her and not me (WTF?!?) Hubby isn't going (damn skippy!) but it was SUPER WEIRD that I wasn't asked. She comes here this week and reprimends my daughter - (again - WTF?!) She has seen her three times - if I seriously think that my dd is in dire need of a reprimend, I will do it. I don't know why she thinks it is cool to reprimend my daughter for blowing her nose, not getting dressed on time, staying up too late, ragging on her for potty training...I just don't understand. If she were someone whom I shared trials and tribulations with (ie: a good friend whom also has a kiddo the same age as dd) I wouldn't mind it. but she doesn't, and she also doesn't hear about problems that i have with my dd, and she also doesn't even know that I am really not potty training right now b/c we tried this week and she had a complete anxiety attack/melt down every time we go around a potty -
but she asked my hubby to go somewhere 2 hours away from us w/o asking me if i wanted to go. she and i went to school together, she only met my hubby when we started dating a few years ago. I feel very confused with my feelings on her, and i have been confused for a few years now.
some days i wish there was a book on how to handle certain situations as since i am a sahm, i find more and more that i don't wish to deal with things like this. maybe my focus on life has changed with children, who knows. but this type of behaviour is CRAZY, unnecessary and well, rude. but my type A has turned into a passive whatever else type is totally passive and i just would rather run away than deal with it.
am i nuts?
I have a friend, she is single. It is the weirdest thing ever. We don't talk much anymore ~ and I am positive it is b/c I have a life that she would like for herself - not necessarily my life, but aspects of it.
We used to be close, but she has made super hurtful comments lately about me and my kiddos and kinda flirts with my hubby - not to mention that she asked him to go to a brewery with her and not me (WTF?!?) Hubby isn't going (damn skippy!) but it was SUPER WEIRD that I wasn't asked. She comes here this week and reprimends my daughter - (again - WTF?!) She has seen her three times - if I seriously think that my dd is in dire need of a reprimend, I will do it. I don't know why she thinks it is cool to reprimend my daughter for blowing her nose, not getting dressed on time, staying up too late, ragging on her for potty training...I just don't understand. If she were someone whom I shared trials and tribulations with (ie: a good friend whom also has a kiddo the same age as dd) I wouldn't mind it. but she doesn't, and she also doesn't hear about problems that i have with my dd, and she also doesn't even know that I am really not potty training right now b/c we tried this week and she had a complete anxiety attack/melt down every time we go around a potty -
but she asked my hubby to go somewhere 2 hours away from us w/o asking me if i wanted to go. she and i went to school together, she only met my hubby when we started dating a few years ago. I feel very confused with my feelings on her, and i have been confused for a few years now.
some days i wish there was a book on how to handle certain situations as since i am a sahm, i find more and more that i don't wish to deal with things like this. maybe my focus on life has changed with children, who knows. but this type of behaviour is CRAZY, unnecessary and well, rude. but my type A has turned into a passive whatever else type is totally passive and i just would rather run away than deal with it.
am i nuts?
posted by curly @ 12:30 AM
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